I have no idea how this happened exactly but I have officially been married 9 YEARS.
NINE YEARS?
Seriously?
Honestly though, its been absolute, pure BLISS.
(OK, that’s a lie – BLISS is a huge overstatement, and is simply a testament to my sarcasm).
How about this: Its been pure HELL.
(OK, that’s not nice – true, but not nice).
How about: It has been nine years of rollercoaster-induced nausea/joy.
YES! PERFECTION!
Now that that’s out of the way, would you like to know the secret of how to stay married for 9 LONG years? Its simple. When the husband promises you a HUGE rock on your 10th Anniversary, you stick around! That’s my carrot people, and I’m not giving up until I get it.

Year 10 plus one day? Who knows who I’ll be dating at that point. Perhaps, the delicious Jeffrey Dean Morgan will clear his schedule for me that day? (Warning: Being married for 9 years may bring on hallucinations, delusions and crying fits of pure rage – large doses of strong coffee & HBO recommended!)
Happy Anniversary to me & the dude I live with (aka the husband). I wish us at least 366 more days of UTTER joy.


























































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Your dress is beautiful!!
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Happy Anniversary! You guys are just gorj in that picture!
My Roomie and I have also been married for 9 years. In my case, by year 10 plus one day, my pretend boyfriend Gerard Butler should finally have his act together to ask me out.
What a beautiful photo. You guys look amazing. Enjoy your last year married!
How beautiful!!!! Happy anniversary!!! We celebrated 9 years this past July.
It’s a good life.
WOW! Very pretty pride!!! gorgeous. Cant tell if you’re being serious or not haha. Either way…HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!! Enjoy your day
Happy Anniversary Maria!
Such a stunning photo! You look amazing! Happy Anniversary
Um, that’s awesome. Now I just have to get my hubby to give me a promise like that too!
Happy 9 Years!!!
I can feel the love!
Congrats on nine years – that is wonderful!
We are coming up on 10 and I can’t believe it either…
Congratulations on your anniversary. We are approaching 14 and together for 19 and that is longer than I lived in my parent’s house and that floors me. It gets better, even after the carrot has been eaten. Or should I say carat?
May you continue to live happily ever after one day at a time.
Congrats! Hope you get that carrot- uh Rock – next year
Passes quick doesn’t it??
Happy Anniversary Maria! That’s so awesome! Mark and I just celebrated our 5th a couple of weekends ago. Here’s to at least 366 more days for you…:)
Ohhh…you are one of the lucky ones who got married in 2000!!! So it is always so easy to remember how many years you’ve been married….LUCKY! My sister-in-law is also a member of that 2000 club. You girls are smart.
Congrats, Maria! & Hubby, too! Having a sense of humor is one of the keys to marital success, if you ask me! The ability to laugh at things that would otherwise drive you to insanity or homicide…hehehe! When mine is in trouble, I tell him to sleep with his eyes open…then I wink at him…makes him a little nervous
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY! You are a KNOCKOUT! Check you out! What a beautiful dress! Wow!
I heard a quote from a couple who’d been married for like 75 years or something insane like that – when asked if during the course of their marriage the wife had ever considered divorce, she responded “Divorce, NO! Murder, FREQUENTLY!” I seriously live by this quote.
Have an awesome day!
Happy Anniversary Maria & the Dude.
Gorgeous picture!
Any special plans to celebrate?
AWESOME! That’s a pretty sweet deal
You both look adorable…love the photo. ♥ Happy Anniversary ♥
Hey, anything for a huge rock! Kidding… Congrats on nine years! One year away from double digits!
Happy Anniversary!!!!! I’m getting married this month. Should I get it in writing that I deserve a giant rock at 10 years? lol
A great carrot! I have been married 14 years this December- eternity ring is on the cards one day, but it can´t be at the expense of other priorities sadly. Hope you get yours!
What a gorgeous bride you were, Maria! You’re both beautiful. Congratulations ot you!!! xoxo
Happy Anniversary! We are about to celebrate our 5th, so I guess I have a few years to convince, er, I mean tell him about the 10-year rock you have educated me on!
What a lovely anniversary date! Seriously, anything in September is A-OK in my book.