
I went to a public school that was literally across the street from my house, from the ages of five to fourteen. Although some days I hated living that close, and others I didn’t really care, the fact was it was very convenient. Of course, living that close meant that I could easily come home from school for lunch, which was a big plus for my mom. So, from the first day of Kindergarten to the last day of grade 8, I would walk home for lunch.
Every day.
For nine years.
There might have been a school trip here or there, that warranted a bagged lunch, but I would say 99.9% of the time, I was sitting at my kitchen table, and not a table at school, during my lunch break.
My mom was a stay-at-home-mom, and with five kids, she was always very busy. My mom is old school – a Greek immigrant, who kept (and still does keep) an immaculate house despite the fact that seven of us lived under the same roof, in a house that wasn’t necessarily made for seven. And every single day she made these fabulous meals for us for lunch and dinner. Yup, every single day, there was something different on the table, and you can bet that there was no chance that any of it was processed. My mom wasn’t the sandwich type of mom either – she was the hot lunch type of mom.
So, for years, I would run home from school for lunch, sit at the table and eat with my little sister, while we got to watch The Flintstones. We had a little television in our kitchen that sat on top of a sewing machine table. Remember those old school sewing machines? The ones that were attached to the table and folded down into it? We had one – my oldest sister would use it to make us little outfits and Halloween costumes when we were younger. And when the sewing machine was put away, it housed our little t.v., and allowed us to watch our beloved Flinstones. It was a real treat.
Now that I am old and gray, I miss those days. When you’re living in the moment, and you’re young, you don’t really realize that those special moments will become childhood memories that you will cherish for years and years. And so now, whenever I see The Flintstones (thank you satellite t.v.), I think about those times and how my mom would greet us at the door, ask us about our morning, and feed us what she had cooked for us.
It’s a silly thing I suppose, to associate a kid’s cartoon with a childhood memory – but I can’t deny that it absolutely reminds me of the comforts of home and family, and my mom in her slippers and cute mom outfit, and perfectly coiffed hair.
Thanks Mom.
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Dear Mom: I promise I will try to remember these lovely moments when I’m driving my beloved six year old back and forth from school four times every day, because he wants to eat his lunch at home, even though we don’t live anywhere near the school. I will try especially hard to remember those times when it happens to be the dead of winter and the travel back and forth takes even longer. And I’m going to do this, and waste a lot of gas in the process, because I’m going to try to recreate those moments for my son (minus The Flintstones – because evidently television can now be attributed to hyperactivity, rudeness, talking back and dandruff – and in this day and age, we certainly don’t need more dandruff in the world). Also, don’t hate me if I occasionally throw in a chicken nugget for lunch – and by occasionally, I mean often. Love Me.


























































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As I am finishing my breakfast on my working desk, I feel a warmth just reading this.
That was absolutely beautiful, Maria
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Thank you so much!!
That sounds like an absolute dream! I can’t think of anything more disgusting than public school lunches.
Actually our public schools (which we consider K-8) don’t have cafeterias at all, so its a bagged lunch or home basically.
Lucky! School lunch is disgusting…
I associate the Smurfs with great morning weekends. I used to wake up early, before everyone else in my family, and sneak downstairs to watch with a bag of Oreos.
Not quite the same as a delicious lunch, but it reminds me of being alone with a yummy snack
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That is so sweet of you to try to recreate the wonderful childhood memories for your own children!
I always watched The Flintstones at lunch as well because I lived close enough to walk home for lunch – great memories
Spiderman would sneak in there too if there was enough time!
Yes! If we ate slowly enough, Spiderman came on right after. Memories………..
I love thinking about memories like that. My mom packed our lunches every day and she would always write a note on my napkin. I always knew it was there and yet I waited until lunch to look at it. The funny thing is, I was never embarrasses by it either, even though I got them up through high school!
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I do that for my son too – the first time he did it, he was so thrilled, he made me a little something right back. Now I do it daily, and he looks forward to it.
Recreating special childhood memories for our kids is indeed a gift. I am sure he will appreciate this even more once he’s older.
We also had the old school Singer sewing machine. My mom sewed me my dresses and now I have an electric one still brand new in a box. As much as I’d like to recreate certain memories for my girl, sewing her dresses will probably never be one of them…
Loved this post!
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What a poignant post. I’m all about the memories. SITS sent me by, and I’m glad they did!
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My lunch breaks were 1 1/2 hrs back in my primary school years, so lunch was with the Flintstones and, after we got cable, dessert with The Beav.
So impressive. Five kids! Man. I can’t imagine physically having that many, never mind feeding them all and cleaning up after them. Obviously the older generation was made of sterner stuff than I.
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I’m not sure how she did it to be honest – I am still in awe of her, especially now that I’m a mom.
“And by occasionally, I mean often.” Loved that. I wouldn’t love driving back and forth 4 times, so I guess it’s lucky for me that my kid doesn’t have a choice. He has to stay at school for lunch whether he wants to or not. Also, your mom sounds like a rockstar.
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I can totally relate to this! I would go home for lunch every day too AND I watched the Flintstones and The New Zoo Revue… do you remember that one? Anyway, I have some good memories lying on the floor watching TV while my grandmother made me homemade french fries. I wonder why I have a weight problem… Then my grandma moved in grade 6 or 7 and my mom started to make sandwiches. The same boring ass sandwich everyday. Until about grade 8 when I would go home for lunch and make Kraft Dinner or have a nutella sandwich… I wonder why I have a weight problem… Good times.
Ohhh…..sounds like your momma loved you and your siblings a lot! This brought back great memories for me, my mom always had afterschool snacks and homemade dinners for us! Good times!
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That’s funny because you reminded me of how jealous I used to be of those kids who could walk home for lunch!
I wonder if kids can still leave school and do that. I’m thinking the answer is no.
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This post had me quietly smiling too myself. My sister and I lived quite far from the school, but went home for most lunches and ate our hot home made lunches as quickly as we could so we could squeeze in the Flintstones before heading back to school!
Now that I have 2 girls in school they want to stay for lunch every day and I MAKE them come home once a week. Yes, make them:)
Thanks for reminding me why I do it…
I would have loved to live across the street from school and go home for lunch.
What lovely memories!
I totally want to be your mom. Except that it sounds exhausting.
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This was a really refreshing post, and it reminded me of so many traditions that I want to pass on to my kids. And it’s not the big stuff, like Christmas day rituals or birthday party themes. It’s the stuff of everyday, like The Flintstones at lunch and blowing bubbles on the porch, that we’ll remember forever. Thank you, Maria
You always know how to make me smile.
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What precious…gorgeous!!…faces!!
Thank you for the smile on this dreary (in Florida!) Sunday!!
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